Actually, ~B., it's not that you want stuff that you don't have, but that you want stuff that you think you don't have.
And the best way to change this is to begin thinking that you have it.
As in, "Oh, there's my electric, fully-loaded, Habitron Cloud Maker!!"
Rain, please -
Sometimes they're a little more serious, but a charming reminder nonetheless.
Sometimes, ~B., when circumstances or disappointments bump you off track, it's the beginning of an even bigger dream coming true, that could not have come true on the track you were on.
Always, always -
As far as I can tell, ~B., worrying about anything at all is a pretty good indicator that one has begun thinking that their joy and prosperity will somehow hinge on pending physical events, other people, or angry green Martians.
Can you imagine?!
I love it!